Change
Sunday, February 28th, 2010 | Author:

Have you ever thought of something you were not happy about, and the more you thought of it the worse it seemed? that’s simply because as we think one sustained thought, it only brings more “like” thoughts to us. And in a matter of minutes, we have gotten so many “like” unhappy thoughts coming to us that the situation seems to be getting worse. The more we think about it, the more upset we get – this is a clear example of a situation that we need to shift gears - that we need to change lanes.

Change has various interpretations. Of course Bon has his own interpretation of change (taragis!). though my interpretation (based on my personal experience) can only be effective to me, and it does not necessarily mean that it will work to you the same way it worked to me. But still I want to share, you may want to try, just only make sure to make some “changes” that will exactly fit you.

Change for Bon is a Choice. It is more of a choice than a chance. If I want to have a new and fresh look, I’d go to the barber shop and it’s my choice to have a new haircut. It’s also my choice to change from wordpress to “dot com”. Why a sudden change? Simple, dot com has more to offer. Thank you so much wordpress, I owe a lot from you, but it’s time for me to change, but I will always be one of the wordpress babies.

Change for Bon is done by Heart. We sometimes change things in us because we are no longer happy with them. There is something inside that pushes us to explore new things. But every time we think of change, we MUST do it not for anything but for the BEST, that we feel good about it. I regularly get my haircut (haha), wear trendy clothes not to impress people but rather to express my feelings, simply to feel and look good of course (haha). I changed to “dot com” because I feel comfortable with it now, I can do more stuff. Importantly, I can own it, it’s now officially bonistation.com --yihaa!.

Change for Bon has something to do with Ability. To change something, we must think ahead, visualize and plan things out. We must consider all possible effects to ourselves as well as to the people around us whom are gonna be directly affected by such change. Another thing is the ability to manage time. If we feel to change, do it now. No room for break times. If we do it now, we have enough time to revise plans. If I want to shift my career and be a model or an actor, I must do it now. I’ll be losing opportunities if I do it later. But do I have the ability to become such? Haha. You tell me now, hurry! “I've gotta feeling that tonight's gonna be a good night…woohooo!” hahaha.

Change for Bon is a Normal thing. It is no more extraordinary. Some people may want to discover more. Exploring other options may result in several changes: change in status, habits, lifestyle, attitude, etc. But I’d say that we explore new things to learn and improve more without jeopardizing others’ thoughts and feelings.

Change for Bon is done with Gratitude. We change to improve. But we should give appreciation to anything we are going to improve on. For without them, we are changing nothing. I started blogging with wordpress. I discovered a lot of friends thru it and that I give most credits to wordpress.

Finally, Change for Bon is done with Enthusiasm. Some people say that it’s really hard to change things and even bad habits. Yes, it’s true though, but being a happy person, I always make change with a big smile. Always do it with passion to feel the change we want.

In a nutshell, to CHANGE is very easy. But be careful, we must always change for the BEST and not for anything else. If we think about what we want in our mind, and make that our dominant thought, we will bring it into our lives. Thoughts become things. If we want to change anything in our lives, change the channel by changing our thoughts. Lately, I’ve noticed some positive changes in me and I am so happy about it. I am now a more mature person, I have developed more confidence in me, confidence in my abilities, self-respect, and as a result..

I am now more confident to face any challenge that would anytime dare to CHANGE me.

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